All babies are different, but most likely the baby would sleep in a quiet back bedroom if you had the pack n play for them. Talk to the friends and see if this would be a good solution for them.
So sorry this came up for you too, but babies would be much easier than a toddler - so hope your friend's little one is a good sleeper!
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Thanks Frankie's Girl. She's known to be a good sleeper. I'm hoping that her mom can hold her for awhile then when she falls asleep put her in the pack n play.
Good luck with the toddlers. I would try to keep any of cool props out of reach if you can.
Since your husband isn't that close to that guy, maybe he should just go ahead and just tell him straight off and emphasize again that the party is for adults only. If he gets annoyed, it's no loss to you since he wasn't a really close friend anyway. Oh! Maybe your husband can just tell him that the party has been cancelled! That's assuming that guy doesn't live too close and can drive by to check.
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My wife and I also have an adult-only party, and we do our best to be sure everyone understands that. I will admit feeling a bit awkward reminding some new folks that it is not a child-safe party, but it is everyone's interest ( I think) to make it as clear as possible on the invitations and in replies following RSVPs. There is alcohol, some gory props, and some fragile props that I want left alone. Luckily our friends have learned over the years to expect and respect our decision, and I think more than anything, I would feel more awkward if I knew my friends went to great lengths to get babysitters, etc. and then someone else drags their kid along with them. Having said that, we do let folks bring their <1 year olds. They generally leave early and are less likely to impact the party. Anyway, just my 2 cents.
Our early parties were all-ages, but several years ago (2001, I think), we started adding "16 & older" to the invitations, but added that this was a suggested age, and left it up to the parents to decide if they bring their kids. Most of our guests agree that they feel more comfortable drinking & carrying on if their kids are not there. Plus, we have babysitting in the house next door ($10/kid), so if they CAN'T stand being away from their youngins for more than an hour or 2, they can always run next door & check on them.
We went "adults only" mostly because drunk men and teenage girls in sexy costumes do NOT make a good combination.
We have 1 guest that insists on bringing his daughter to our parties. I think it's a poor decision on his part, but he's her parent, not me.
I think it is important to consider the comfort of all your guests. Children are only going to be bored at an adult party; their parents will not be able to relax and enjoy themselves. Other guests my be uncomfortable with the kids around and feel restrained in how they socialize because of the presence of young eyes and ears. It is not wrong to let your friends know you would not be comfortable with including children (not just their children) for your adults-only party.
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I agree with everyone else - wholeheartedly. Don't get me wrong - I like kids. I have two daughters and five nieces, but here's the thing. Most of our "party" lives are devoted to kids' parties: birthdays, graduations, Easter, Christmas, etc. etc. It seems like you're at a kids party every month if you have kids. Soooo when it comes to Adult Parties - I feel like we earn the right to say - this is MY time. I even kick my youngest daughter out for my Bewitched Bash party. She's only 7 and the idea is having a party for all the great women I know in my life and just having fun. I've told her when she's older she can come. Her sister gets to come - but she's 14. I know this may sound selfish... but oh well.
So saying all that blah blah blah - I would definitely be specific about it being an adult party and don't feel guilty. If you feel bad, try and help them find a babysitter - but it is your party. Kick up your heels and have a blast.
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