It blows my mind that some people that we consider friends are reliably unreliable.
They used to do things all the time - chili cook off, camping, boat trips, etc... but now? They say they are IN and at the last minute, bail. No big deal for a party, but for a boat trip that requires planning and reservations... it is rude. I recommend not asking, but they usually get an invite anyway.
The common denominator in most of our friends lives that don't show up is a wife from another social circle. They'd rather sit at home than be around people they don't know. So, they do.
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